Stalking victims nightmare and how to disappear and never be found

It’s difficult being hunted. Trying to sleep can be a fearful, wide-eyed, worrisome, affair filled with the anxiety of wondering when he will find you. How can you be certain he won’t find you? Your abusive husband, the dangerous stalker, promised he would stalk you to the end of the earth if necessary. And he is doing just that. How can you stop the stalking? You need to learn how to disappear and never be found.

Step one: Make certain you remove all traces of your money links to you before you make your clean getaway. Financial privacy and bank secrecy are both key to avoiding a stalker. This means the closing of all bank and brokerage accounts under your name.

Step two: Arrange for an alternate way to hold money so that he or his goons will never discover it. Your individual circumstances will dictate your needs. Check cashing stores are a good option for clearing checks payable to you. Anonyous safe deposit boxes and safes can be used to hold cash. Investment funds can be held in a Nevada Limited Parntership registered anonymously the way I describe in Privacy Crisis: Identity Theft Prevention Plan and Anonymous Living.

About your job; This is a quick link to you when you work under your name and Social Security number. It will be necessary to break that trail, too. If you want to succeed in your escape from your tormentor, you will have to take some serious and drastic measures to do it. This means working under another entity name so that you cannot be traced through the new hire data bank that government agencies, private investigators and stalkers use to find their subjects. Again, refer to my book.

Thanks for reading.

Grant Hall

How can an abused woman escape domestic violence?

This article provides a way for an abused woman to escape her abusive ex within a short period of time. Specific recommendations are provided for the initial escape and references and resource links are contained  in the article.

Help hot lines and domestic violence shelters

Those who operate these domestic violence facilities are to be commended for their efforts. And to be fair, these companies provide their share of help to abused women. In fact, the hot line may have provided substantial supportive counseling prior to the time the abused woman is ready and willing to end the domestic violence against her by making a clean getaway from her abusive husband or ex boyfriend.  Once this decision is made by the battered woman, it is time to establish a defensive plan-an immediate, emergency plan to stop stalking efforts of her abusive ex who will surely come looking for her once he discovers she has left the nest.

Stopping Stalking

Nipping the stalking problem in the bud is the best strategic plan If it can be accomplished. This means the stalking victim should, if possible, learn how to lose her stalker ex immediately upon leaving the home where the domestic violence took place.

Create a new identity and become a roommate

Begin the escape plan by becoming known by a pen name or alternate name in order to break the paper trail to the real you. How will your stalking ex pick up the trail on Mary Sue Davidson when she is now known as Kathy Washington in her new apartment which she shares with a roommate who has all house utilities in her name?

For more information, please review this article on harassment stalking:

Privacy living tactics

Once an escape has been made, the staking victim and former abused woman will need to adopt high-level privacy living principles in order to establish bank secrecy, ensure home privacy, develop workplace anonymity, and learn to travel secretly.

Further reading is recommended for those who desire information on stalking harassment. We offer a FREE E-MAIL COURSE. To subscribe, click HERE.

Stalking victims and others who have suffered stalking harassment or those who want to learn about privacy living may be interested in visiting our website,

Our e-book, Privacy Crisis; Identity Theft Prevention Plan and Guide to Anonymous Living is a stalking book that will provide all the information necessary to prevent stalking or lose an obsessive ex or other stalker who wants to make you his stalking victim. You can purchase the e-book and begin reading it in just Five minutes from now.

IF you question whether you should take the crime of stalking or the crime of domestic violence seriously, please be advised that stalkers are very persistent in some cases and have been known to stalk their victims from one year to as long as forty years.  Consider this piece of stalking information and these stalking statistics taken as direct quotes from the website below:

“Stalking According to the Stalking Resource Center:

  • 1,006,970 women and 370,990 men are stalked annually in the United States.
  • 1 in 12 women and 1 in 45 men will be stalked in their lifetime.
  • 77% of female and 64% of male victims know their stalker.
  • 87% of stalkers are men.
  • 59% of female victims and 30% of male victims are stalked by an intimate partner.
  • 81% of women stalked by a current or former intimate partner are also physically assaulted by that partner.
  • 31% of women stalked by a current or former intimate partner are also sexually assaulted by that partner.
  • The average duration of stalking is 1.8 years.
  • If stalking involves intimate partners, the average duration of stalking increases to 2.2 years.
  • 61% of stalkers made unwanted phone calls; 33% sent or left unwanted letters or items; 29% vandalized property; and 9% killed or threatened to kill a family pet.
  • 28% of female victims and 10% of male victims obtained a protective order. 69% of female victims and 81% of male victims had the protection order violated.

Stalking Resource Ctr., The Nat’l Ctr. for Victims of Crime, Stalking Fact Sheet, (citing Patricia Tjaden & Nancy Thoennes, U.S. Dep’t of Justice, NCJ 169592, Stalking in America: Findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey (1998)”


Grant Hall

domestic violence and money planning help for abused women

Domestic violence causes substantial emotional and physical harm to abused women. This article will focus on an immediate escape plan for one who wants to escape domestic violence while preserving financial privacy.

Immediate escape planning

The accumulation of cash from payments due from wages, salary, commissions, savings, or a draw is the first priority once the abused woman has made up her mind to put a stop to the domestic violence in her life.

Storing the cash for short term safe keeping while awaiting the travel date is a necessity, and keeping the cash in a bank account known by a women abuser may result in an interruption of escape plans and possibly theft of the money.

Anonymous cash equivalents and how to hide money for travel

Once a stash of cash for a new start has been accumulated, these funds should be stored safely for travel.

One lady who planned to escape her abusive husband divvied up her travel stash of $9,000.00 this way:

1.) $4,000.00 cash was stored on her person and in her car.

2.) $3,000.00 was placed in six separate money orders of $500.00 each. (Separate the money order from the pay stub and keep the purchase receipts just in case a loss occurs).

3.) $2,000.00 in gift cards was purchased. She used those with the Visa or MasterCard logos in various amounts from $100.00 to $500.00.

The money orders and gift cards were kept on her person and concealed in several compartments in her car as she made her escape from her abusive ex.

Abused women may be interested in a free information series that can be received via e-mail. To subscribe to a Free stalking harassment prevention course, CLICK HERE.

Once the initial escape from the abusive husband has been made, privacy living tactics were implemented in order to enable her to travel, bank, work, and live anonymously.  Careful planning prevented her abusive husband who was also a stalker from finding her once she had relocated.

Grant Hall

stalking help for a stalking ex

Are you being stalked?Already a stalking victim?

Whether you are stalked by an ex boyfriend or  an abusive husband/wife, you may become the victim of a dangerous stalker. This article provides information on how to disappear completely and never be found by a stalking ex through the use of an offshore address.

How to disappear completely (on paper)

Credit bureaus monitor changes of addresses of their subjects like clockwork. You as a debtor are kept under their proverbial thumbs as their network of subscribers report your payment history and residence changes. At this time, U.S. credit bureaus do not record foreign addresses in their normal personal data files. However, you can add your new address in the comments section when you move offshore. This new address change can then be viewed by all who see your credit report-including your stalking ex.

“Moving offshore” and the importance of an offshore address

While sitting at a computer, you can arrange for an offshore mailing address to create a location illusion for privacy protection. All of this can be accomplished through e-mail communication and snail mail.

An English speaking first world country is the choice of most Americans who want an offshore address to serve as their primary address.

Creating a location illusion with an offshore mail drop for privacy is the first step to stopping stalking.

Woman murdered by stalker

Think all of this is too much trouble? Are you hesitant about spending a few hundred dollars to learn how to disappear and never be found?

The following website contains information on a woman murdered by her stalker and the direct quotes are taken from this same website:

“Alissa Blanton, 23, of Cocoa, Fla., was shot and killed Monday in the parking lot near her new job at an AT&T call center in Orange County, Fla. Police said her killer, 61-year-old Roger Troy, fatally shot himself immediately afterward.

About a week before she died, Blanton asked a judge for an order of protection against Troy, whom she said had been stalking her for two years. Despite the evidence she presented — her petition contained more than 70 pages of harassing e-mails Troy sent to her — Brevard County Circuit Court Judge Dean Moxley said he didn’t have enough information to rule on the petition.”

Click here for Free information on how to defeat harassment stalking.

Grant Hall

Privacy protection will help battered women with stalking ex

Those who need help with a stalking ex risk becoming a battered woman statistic. Privacy protection basic measures concerning finances are explained in this article and will assist the stalking victim in making personal adjustment decisions.

Breaking up is hard to do

If you are a battered woman, it is emotionally difficult to break away from the abusive husband or ex boyfriend who may be stalking you. Once you have made the decision to break up, financial privacy will become a chief concern as money secrets are essential for eliminating control measures imposed upon you by a controlling, stalking ex.

How to obtain bank secrecy

Banking privacy is best obtained through the use of check cashing stores and an anonymous safe deposit box that your stalking ex cannot access under any circumstances. Bite the bullet and pay the 1.9% to 2.9% principal amounts charged by check cashing services in order to obtain financial privacy and take immediate possession of cash derived from salary, wages, commissions, or self employment draws.

Help for battered women

Support groups and/or therapists may provide support for damages caused by an abusive ex husband or ex boyfriend. Seek professionals for emotional support as an adjunct to your financial privacy adjustment plan.

Competent professionals and law enforcement may provide assistance to battered women who are abused by a stalker ex.

Helping battered women is a goal of this column and the associated website. Free advice is available through the website in the form of solutions to stop stalking, and this information series can be obtained privately through e-mail.